The Choices We Make
EPISODE 7 / 01.14.2025
Todd and Bettijo unpack how our choices shape our lives, for better or worse. From emotions to trapeze stunts, they share lessons learned, laughs, and the lasting impact of decisions big and small. Along the way, they explore why taking accountability – especially for our own happiness – is the key to navigating life’s twists and turns.
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Show Notes
Todd and Bettijo explore how our choices—big and small—shape the course of our lives. From the power of daily decisions to the weight of life-altering moments, they examine the interplay between agency and the complexities of human emotions. Todd opens up about times when he made choices to hurt others, only to realize the deeper damage they caused himself. Drawing inspiration from the TV show The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel, Bettijo reflects on the extremes people can go to in order to maintain appearances.
Todd shares thrilling behind-the-scenes stories from his time performing trapeze stunts on Circus of the Stars, revealing the adrenaline, challenges, and life lessons he gained from flying high. The duo also reflects on how every decision—from diet to daring feats like trapeze and motorcycles—carries consequences, some that only surface years later.
With their signature mix of honesty, humor, and wisdom, Todd and Bettijo discuss the emotional balance needed to process hurt and frustration without letting it define us. They underscore the importance of finding joy, embracing life’s lessons, and staying accountable for the choices we make.
Highlights
- Anger is natural — it’s all about how you handle it.
- Happiness requires effort (and how it’s like brushing your teeth every day!)
- Choices, big or small, always carry consequences.
- Risks can teach us valuable lessons (and sometimes leave scars!).
- Humor and reflection are essential for navigating life’s ups and downs.
Tune in to learn
- What Todd learned from performing trapeze stunts on Circus of the Stars.
- Why Bettijo believes happiness is a daily habit.
- How Todd and Bettijo manage anger and frustration constructively.
Laugh, reflect, and rethink your choices with Todd and Bettijo as they tackle trapeze stunts, happiness, and life’s biggest lessons. Hit play now to listen in!
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